It will be a lovely March

[forever_wandering]

My friends have been bugging me quite a bit about getting back in to the dating game. Seeing as I haven't been single since junior high, they're worried I might be in some kind of a funk. I don't know if I'd call it a funk, but I will say that I'm not interested in dating right now. There is someone that I'm interested in at the moment, but the chances of us dating are rather slim since I don't even know if I'll ever see him again so my friends suggest I simply move on, but honestly, even if I don't date the guy I like, I'm perfectly happy being good friends and continuing the relationship we have now. Instead of forcing myself to find someone else, I want to focus on the relationship this person and I have now. I don't believe I need to have the 'girlfriend' title with him in order to be happy. Whether he calls me girlfriend or not, we still have a blast together. 

Anyway, who knows, maybe with time, it'll even grow in to something more. 






IN OTHER NEWS:

My friend will arrive on Saturday! We have plans to hang out with another girl who studied with us in high school that happens to live in my area! I'm really looking forward to this since these days, I've been feeling a little worn out from being all adult-like. I need to step back and have some fun, and what better way to do that than by remembering my HS years? Though those years were my least healthiest....
Next week will be extremely busy for me, but will be full of fun times and pictures! 

It also means I need to start dressing like a real person again. Whenever I'm at home and I'm not going out, it's like I live in Pajamas. I wake up, go about my day, work out, shower, then change in to another pair of PJ's XD. Do I remember what it's like to wear clothes without elastic bands or tightening strings?!?!  And make up! Woot! Time to whip out the Ageha magazines! =D 

Comments

[nekohae.livejournal.com]

it's a bit irritating when people around keep telling you to find yourself a boyfriend __^__;; or ask if you're in relationship with someone..."I don't want to be in relationship right now, deal with it" =_=;

[cocojewels.livejournal.com]

About the guy, I live something similar, through I don't know the details about your story; I'm really into someone that I don't know if I'm gonna see him again. (love the gif with JGL BTW n__n) I'm in the very same state of mind about boys. I'm not looking for everyone in particular either, so I totally understand your feelings.

Do not forget about the pictures ! That's so nice that you can spend good time with friends, personally I miss that so much (yeah work work work!)

[kurikuribebi]

I think it's because once you get to a certain age, it seems bad to be single. For instance, they used to say that a woman who isn't married at 30 will never be married. Now? We know that isn't true.

It's true that it's annoying and I wish they'd try to understand my feelings a little more, but until then, all I can do is humor them.

Somehow.

[kurikuribebi]

I know! I just love him too <3. He's amazing!

Well, this guy and I keep in touch quite often. We talk on the phone and exchange messages via facebook every two days or so, and we're both up to date on what the other is doing, more or less (Honestly, I think I'm way more secretive than he is...which I should stop!) but we both have full schedules so I don't know if we'll ever have time to travel and see each other again. I don't even know if he sees me as more than a friend. He compliments me often and has told me he loves me and appreciates me...But what that means? I'm not sure.

[cocojewels.livejournal.com]

Stop wondering stupidly on goes on, live the life without asking questions. You're so lucky.
I spoke to him the last few weeks ago. He doesn't live in the country and he didn't answer my last phone call. Still, as my feelings are true, I wanna be with him, see him again and just...talk. But we can't get in touch. I gotta wait to come back there.

You are lucky to have such a relationship I would give a lot to get such attention from the guy I like. Just enjoy without wondering because this is exactly when you're always thinking about how to act with him or what he is actually thinking about you that you miss all the good. See the good, please enjoy and be happy. So than, you'll live the true life, without any regrets :D

[kurikuribebi]

Yeah, that's why I wrote that I was perfectly fine being friends with him as long as we can have fun together =) If I worry too much about getting the title, I might push him away and we won't be able socialize.

Right now, I'm in the US until August, but my apartment is in Osaka. He lives in Tokyo. So, it's long distance for us too, though it might not exactly be out of the country for so long.

I don't plan on acting unusually around him. I will continue on as normal, so that he will continue to tell me I'm cute. Lol. But sometimes I wonder. It doesn't affect my behavior, but I do wonder.

[cocojewels.livejournal.com]

I am very happy for you ♥
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MARCH WILL BE BEAUTIFUL, YOU ARE TRUE.

[jimjamjenny.livejournal.com]

I live in pyjamas too!! :D In winter, anyway.

[esperity.livejournal.com]

It's good that at least you know what you want in terms of relationships. You can't push yourself to just date someone else without legitimately liking them.

[kurikuribebi]

Ahaha. It's so horrible! My friend recently dragged me in to watching Switch Girl and I immediately thought of myself, living a double life. I never ever ever let anyone see me in my PJ's. Ever ever ever never.

[kurikuribebi]

Thanks.
I'm amazed at how many people find it so easy to simply date someone just because.

[jimjamjenny.livejournal.com]

Hehe, me neither! Apart from people I've lived with. I was really shocked the other day when I went over to my friends house, and she was wearing her pyjamas, even though she knew that people would be coming round. I mean, we weren't doing anything special or anything, but I would NEVER do that! It's nice that she feels comfortable enough to though, I guess?

[kurikuribebi]

Even with people I was dating or with family, I used to be picky about it. I would wake up and change immediately. I loosened up and eventually only family, best friends and Take saw me in sleep wear.

When I lived in Alaska, people used to walk around and shop in their PJ's like it's no problem. If I knew them, I'd make a comment about it, but they would just say "You're not in Tokyo anymore, darling."

But what does it have to do with Tokyo? PJs are SLEEPWEAR XD... Though I've extended them to Lounging wear in the house =D

[esperity.livejournal.com]

It's sad. I've seen some people stick with someone just for the sake of being in a relationship and then ditching them once someone better turns up. ;w;

[kurikuribebi]

I could never do that. A relationship involves intimacy and once a person has seen me open like that, I can't just drop them.

[jimjamjenny.livejournal.com]

Hehe! It does seem wrong when people wear them outside. I find it weird that in Japan, which is a country pretty obsessed with appearance, people often throw out their rubbish etc in pyjamas, with wet hair etc (I saw 2 people doing that the other day. I guess they thought that nobody would see them, because they seemed embarrassed when they noticed me, hehe). I ALWAYS put on proper clothes when I throw out my rubbish, even if I've been at home wearing pyjamas all day.

But yeah, pyjamas, YAY! :D I'm glad that Taka also likes to lie around wearing his pyjamas on days off if we don't have any plans, it makes me feel better about it, hehe :)

[kurikuribebi]

I need to find me a guy like that. The problem is though that if he's as lazy as I am...nothing will ever get done lol. We'd sit on the couch all day, order take out and watch random movies. Even if we had plans, neither of us would motivate the other to change.

When I take out my trash, I never wear PJ's. Sometimes I wear sweats...but that's only sometimes.

[starling27.livejournal.com]

Hmm i don't like this whole outdated attitude that people have about "you must be in a relationship, if not theres something wrong/you're a loser" i say if you're happy being single, don't worry bout it. Ive learnt that the best relationships occur when you don't even realise you're in a relationship all you know is that you're happy and badabing someone in a spontaneous moment kisses you and it all falls into place :)

[kurikuribebi]

I agree with your comment entirely. If things are meant to happen,yes it will take a tad bit of work, but it shouldn't feel like you're forcing every move. Also, I feel that the work should go in to strengthening the friendship, not actually creating a relationship as a "couple." If you have a great friendship, being a couple won't be hard at all.