Friends and Relationships

[forever_wandering]

Good morning, Good evening, Hello. 

I'm sitting here sipping on Organic Green Tea, which actually isn't as bad as I expected it to be, wondering why it has to be so cold. Seriously, you think that after living in Alaska, I'd develop some kind of tolerance for the cold--seriously. But no. I wasn't that lucky Probably because I kept leaving.

A conversation I had through comments on my last entry really got me thinking about all my friends and the relationships we have. Someone once told me that a best friend didn't need to be told they were a best friend--nor did they care whether they were or not. They were too busy enjoying the time you guys spend together. That friend, would have to be a girl named "Lisa." 

We met for the first time when I started studying in Philadelphia. She was there for a year on exchange. Once her year was up, she went back to Japan. A few months after that, I ended up transferring to her college in Yokohama. We were never the hang out 24/7 type, but we always manage to get together for good, long, much needed girl-talks. There is no drama in this relationship. No jealousy, no competition....just friendship. I love it. 

It's been four years since we first met. I've only managed to hold a friendship with one other person for that long and unfortunately, I don't have any pictures with her. It's something I need to remedy when she comes to see me in March.  


Also, a few days ago, I actually sat down in front of a TV and started watching this drama: 


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I caught it somewhere towards the middle, so I'm not sure what Kamikawa's deal is just yet, but this drama is GREAT! It's hilarious in an evil kind of way (Of course it is, isn't that how it always is with twins?) but so touching at the same time! I've never been sucked in by the first episode like this. I'm in love. 

Comments

[warriorofdream.livejournal.com]

you know one first is sometimes more precious than bunch of brats who say "I'm your friend"
I'm glad you have someone like this <3 and even if she sometiems far away it doesn't matter ^^

[kurikuribebi]

I agree, these people are important. I have a lot of people like this...I only wish more of them were female! Having guys to talk to is great, but sometimes, there are issues that are best discussed with other girls.

[warriorofdream.livejournal.com]

I know what you mean.. with boys I always couldn't speak about some things..
wait maybe you'll find some female friends..
or maybe because all time you hang with boys , girl avoid you xD

[kurikuribebi]

Haha. I thought about that!
Well, girls only wanna hang with me when they need a boyfriend...
Or so it seems!

Maybe I need to be more girly!
Time to buy new make-ups! =D

[warriorofdream.livejournal.com]

who knows.. but try to hang out with girl too..
or try to be somwehre where the girls are more often than boys xD

good luck <3

[banalove.livejournal.com]

it is wonderful to have "real" friends =3 someone who is there in the good, bad and the crazy XD i <3 my best friend i think it is because of her help that i am what i am today "VIVA the BFF" XD

BTW you lived in Alaska!!!!??? *_* I'm so jealous i want to visit at least once in my life =)

[kurikuribebi]

Agreed. I never thought about it until now, but part of the way I am is definitely because of this girl. When I'm with her, there is no bad! Things are just so calm and relaxing. Even when she talks! Her accent makes her English so calming that when we talk, I feel all is right it the world. haha.


Yea, I kind of lived in Alaska. My parents were moved there by my dad's job. They were there for three years. I stayed with them for a bit. I'd like to say I was there for about a year and a half or two, but since I kept leaving for months at a time, in total, I was there maybe 8 months. lol.

It was pretty though!
Maybe I'll post some pictures for you =)

[chochajin.livejournal.com]

Hello! ^-^

I'm glad to hear that you have a friend like that around! :33

[kurikuribebi]

Thanks! I only wish I had more of them! ^^

[chochajin.livejournal.com]

Well, better just one really good friend than many so-so friends, right? Or none at all! :)

[kurikuribebi]

This is very true! Thanks!