What I mean is that if you guys are at the point where you feel, "I wanna be together forever," then by now, your family, friends, people who see you guys in your area, already know you two are committed to each other, right?

Why spend all this money to have this big party to celebrate something that's already existed for quite some time?

I agree with you that a legal document shouldn't be needed...buuut yeah. They're needed for privileges and rights the law controls, unfortunately. Like I hate the idea of having to fill out some legal document to prove my love, but if I have to do it to be able to for instance, have some say in what happens if my guy gets in to an accident,I'm gonna do it.

But yea, anyway. If love was still just about pure love, it wouldn't be as it is now.